Discreet dating for grown-ups.

Safe, discreet dating. Real chemistry, no complications.

Private
Secure
Safe

Profile

Public or private, you decide.

Security Built in.

Ingognito

Profile Hide + Private Photos

Fast

Swipe, match, chat—done

Real

Photo checks, ID verification

In Control

Boundaries baked-in

Incognito Mode

Hide your profile from search results. You decide who sees you and when.

Intro Messages

Send quick intro messages to members when you like them, or select to not allow messages from users that dont fit your preferences.

Consent-First Chat

Boundaries upfront, icebreakers built-in, and quick unmatch. Keep things respectful and clean.

Photo & ID Checks

A Blue tick badge on the profile means the user's identity has been verified. Signal you’re real without oversharing.

Filters That Matter

Match on chemistry factors, not clichés. Set hard boundaries once—keep them everywhere.

Private Labels

Tag profiles privately to remember preferences. Your notes, your eyes only.

Safety, privacy, control.

We keep it adult and keep it safe. You control visibility, messaging, and data. We don’t sell your info. Block fast, report faster.

  • End-to-end encrypted messages*
  • Device-based session locks
  • Contextual reporting tools

*Encryption features roll out by region.

Visibility

Show only to matches

Backup

Export your data anytime

Screenshots (coming soon)

Detect + warn

Consent

Prompted boundaries

Ready when you are. Keep it simple, keep it private.

Create a free profile in minutes. Use an alias. Control who sees you. Delete anything, anytime.

Let's Go

FAQ

Is No Strings anonymous?

You can use an alias and hide your profile until you like someone. Verification is optional but increases trust.

What Does VIP Mean?

VIP members support the site and receive benefits like unlimited messaging, priority support, and seeing which flirtatious members viewed their profile.

Do you sell my data?

No. We run a subscription model so we don’t have to play sketchy ad games.